feline behavior; bonding

Today is Caturday! ("•˘з˘•) I've decided to start studying feline behavior, and I might as well share my knowledge. I'm always looking for new ways to successfully bond with my cats, we can never be too close. (っ˘з(˘.˘ )♥ 

Some cats are not as easy to bond with, though. For example cats adopted from animal shelters, they might be anxious as a result of abuse or neglect. While some cats grow aggressive from living in an unstable household. Cats need a calm and unchanging environment with as little stress as possible.

Our feline companions are predators, which means they have a lot of energy. The best way to blow off some steam, is to play! (●｀з´●) Playing is in fact very healthy for your cat; if your cat is stressed, playing helps calm the cat, playing also helps build up a cats confidence. Playing decreases aggression and builds trust, and last but not least it helps the cat maintain a healthy weight. 

"My cat doesn't want to play!" ヽ(ｏ`皿′ｏ)ﾉ

If your cat doesn't seem interested in playing at all, then you are probably doing it wrong and need a new approach. Cats are hunters, they stalk their prey, chase it. What kind of prey dangles in front of the predator? ╮(╯_╰")╭ It's way too easy, your cat needs a challenge. What you need to do is make the prey "come to life" and make it appear as if it is terrified of your cat. Use a pole with a toy attached on a string, move it around a little bit, "bring it to life". Your cat gets curious, thinking this might be a fun hunt. （；゜０゜）Try to make the toy look like a real prey, try mimicking a birds movements! After the hunt, give your cat praise and food, maybe even a little treat! (～￣▽￣)ノ

Try setting up a schedule and play every day at the same time, so that the cat knows when to expect a hunt. This will definitely strengthen your bond! Remember; give your cat a challenge.